Tuesday, November 18, 2008

MEN...

Are good men the last of a dying breed? I believe so. Ok so I'm a little tired of men these days. Before I go any farther let me just say I love guys and in no way trying to bash them. But seriously where the hell are all the good men lately. They don't know how to act when they have a good girl. Now I may not be the perfect girl but I'm a good catch. I'm the type of girl that will do anything for her man and sometimes it ends up biting me in the ass. One example would be my ex, I gave him the world and it still wasn't good enough he ended up cheating. I mean of course we both did wrong but I believe the key to a good relationship is honestly. Another example would be a friend of mine that wants to be with me but he thinks I'm going to play second to another chick. I'm too good to play second and I deserve to be the only chick.My grandma told me the other day that she feels bad for me because guys my age either cheat or wanna be babied. I completely agree with her. I know not every guy is bad but it just seems like I come across the assholes. I think that I have been so use to dealing with assholes that I might not realize a good man when he comes.Now I may not be perfect. I'm bitchy and hard to deal with..but its going to take a real man to handle me. I haven't given up on Mr. Right. I just hope that when he comes he will be patient with me and understand that he might have to break down the walls I have put up. And to all the good men out there keep up the good work...you will find a girl that appreciates you!

***I am selfish,impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes,I'm out of control and at times hard to handle.But if you cant handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best***

3 comments:

Jonathan Roldan said...

Yup..most guys are asshole. It's true. It's also true that there are some questionable women out there as well. People today have a tendency to over complicate things, and work for themselves instead of the relationship. Your grandmother is right about most men unfortunately. It'll be up to you to find one of the real men out there, sometimes its not as hard as you may think. First place to check would be an Italian restaurant...lol...

Nellz said...

wow...I love this post...ITs sucks when you live in a world where everybody mind and way of thinking is different from the next..so at times it may seem that nothing and nobody will comply with what you want and need....I do know you will find that special someone..and for the people who did you wrong....they will see and realize what they had...and they may get whats coming in their direction..keep ya head up mama and keep doing you! xoxo

Super Woman said...

Ya Grandma is the bomb!!!

ANYWHO, so I found your blog through reading Nellz book

and.... YES a good man is hard to find and i feel like you when you DO find a good guy you might not even know it and brush him off as something else...
I figured that it must be the guys that i DONT usually talk to so from now on i'll try something different

Like Jonathan said ...the italian restaurant (I got a thing for italians)